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Devaluation

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Sociopathic, psychopathic and narcissistic devaluation This is the second phase the victim lives with a sociopath, psychopath or narcissist . Here they will start to change and show their true colours, they will devalue the victim with critics, sarcasm, they will take away their attention , they will make fun of the victim for example they will criticize the victim's clothes, how the victim speaks, the things the victim likes, they will compare the victim with their exes telling her that she is not good at cooking as her ex or they will say the victim is not good at sex as his exes, etc. They will turn cold and distant, they will lose interest in the victim , sexually and emotionally, they will create drama to walk away from their victims to spend time with their lovers, they will dessapear for days or weeks, they will ignore their victims, the victims needs and wants, they will take away their attention to the victims being very inconsiderate, they will be rude and agg...

Narcissistic fuel

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The fuel All psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths and not all sociopaths are narcissists. The fuel, gasoline, or narcissistic supply are positive or negative attention, our positive or negative emotional reactions, this is the fuel the narcissist needs to validate himself, he needs from constant validation, he cannot even validate himself. This individual doesnt have the capacity to validate himself, thats why he needs from external validation and approval. He hasnt a good self steem, he has a very low self steem, he is a black hole full of emptiness. He seems confident, strong, but this is the image he wants to project to people . The only way he has to maintain that perfect image he wants to show is with our emotional reactions, without this he cannot function, he is addicted to provokate emotional reactions on us, this is the way he can exist, this is the way he lives, to live this way is normal for him. I know this is beyond our underst...

Love bombing, Idealization, Golden period.

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Love bombing , Idealization , golden period . This is the first phase where the sociopath, psychopath and the narcissist will seduce their victims with attention, compliments, messages, good moments, good sex, phone calls, caring, love, companionship, gifts, etc. They will use all their loquacity and charm to convince their victims that they are the perfect woman, the perfect man , the right man or the right woman for them, they will talk about love , they will show their victims they are really in love with them, sometimes they will introduce the victims to their friends or family, they will show their victims how much they care for the relationship, they will ask their victims to move in with them, etc. If ur new boyfriend or girlfriend behaves this way, if he or she demands u different things for example to quit ur job, to move in with him or her. All the relationships need time , both parts need time to know each other, if she or he asks u to marry him or her , a...