Devaluation

Sociopathic, psychopathic and narcissistic devaluation

This is the second phase the victim lives with a sociopath, psychopath or narcissist. Here they will start to change and show their true colours, they will devalue the victim with critics, sarcasm, they will take away their attention , they will make fun of the victim for example they will criticize the victim's clothes, how the victim speaks, the things the victim likes, they will compare the victim with their exes telling her that she is not good at cooking as her ex or they will say the victim is not good at sex as his exes, etc.

They will turn cold and distant, they will lose interest in the victim , sexually and emotionally, they will create drama to walk away from their victims to spend time with their lovers, they will dessapear for days or weeks, they will ignore their victims, the victims needs and wants, they will take away their attention to the victims being very inconsiderate, they will be rude and aggressive, etc.

The victims will be confused , they wont know what happens , how that good man or woman could change, when everything was right. They will try to please the abuser to avoid the drama, the victims will give and give time, love, attention, etc but it will never be enough for the sociopath, psychopath and narcissist, because they will continue the devaluation with their victims without compassion.

This is not personal, it doesnt mean the victims are doing something wrong, this is part of their disorder, this is the way they behave with all their victims, the victims cannot avoid the devaluation.

The sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists do this to drain their victims, they know their victims have developed an emotional bond with them, they know the victims are in love with them, in other cases they know their victims consider them real friends , they take advantage of the victims emotions to manipulate them, to abuse them as they want.

If this is ur case , this has nothing to do with u, its about them, its about their mental issue, whathever u do to make things better , u wont get nothing but pain and abuse, this is part of the cycle, this is the way these people behave with all the people , soon or later they will devalue u, they are evil and sadistic, they enjoy ur pain, ur tears, ur despair, they play with ur emotions to submit u, because they love to control and manipulate, they will misuse u in private but in front of other people they will pretend they are good with u.

Be strong , this person is a lie, a real fraud , u dont deserve this treatment, u deserve a good life and real love . Hugs for everybody.

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