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The ego from sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists

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The narcissist The narcissist has an inflated ego, this inflated ego is built through the narcissistic supply, which is all the positive or negative emotional reactions the narcissist gets from his victims. This ego makes him believe he is above other people, it makes him feel omnipotent, special and unique, he feels like a god. When the narcissist devalues his victims and he uses different abusive tactics such as the intermittent reinforcement or the silent treatment, all this feeds his ego and he gets narcissistic supply, he feels powerful and in control. The narcissist needs constantly narcissistic supply to reinforce his ego through the positive or negative reactions from his victims, this is the only way he can survive in this world. He needs to provokate constantly emotional reactions to his partner, family, friends, coworkers, children, strangers , etc , to maintain his false image, that image he has created (the neglected child) or the image his parents, mother or ...

Support groups

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These groups of support on Whatsapp have these objectives: 1- Teach the victims how sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists operate. 2-Give information to the victims. 3-Give advice, help and support to the victims who didnt leave their abuser yet. 4-Give advice, help and support to those victims who left their abuser and went no contact. 5-The Coach will go online every single day to inform, help, advice, support all the members. 6-The victims will be trained to break the trauma bond, learn to detox themselves from their abuser, be trained to end with cognitive dissonance. Rules: 1-There must be respect between all the members. 2-The groups will be classified by disorder and they might be classified by friendship, family, partners, etc, if the members rather it this way. The cost is monthly , it is paid by Pay Pal . If u are interested u can email me at natalielifecoach417@gmail.com

Attachment system

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The attachment is the closure the proximity an individual can have or developes for another individual. The attachment will create the emotional bond and the reciprocity between 2 people. Types of attachment Secure attachment: Theres an unconditionality of the mum to the child, the child's needs are found, he feels loved, accepted and valued. Theres a good emotional relationship between the child and his mum. When the child becomes an adult he can develope good interpersonal relationships, he is confident and independent, he can accept abandonment or failure in any relationship he has, as an adult he will be a reciprocal person. Anxious attachment: The child has opposed feelings, he feels anxiety, fear, insecurity and preoccupation, he feels like this when his mum separates from him for some moments, when the mother comes back, he cannot calm himself down easily and he feels anger. He cannot trust his mum because the separation causes him insecurity , fear and anxiety. ...