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Devaluation

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Sociopathic, psychopathic and narcissistic devaluation This is the second phase the victim lives with a sociopath, psychopath or narcissist . Here they will start to change and show their true colours, they will devalue the victim with critics, sarcasm, they will take away their attention , they will make fun of the victim for example they will criticize the victim's clothes, how the victim speaks, the things the victim likes, they will compare the victim with their exes telling her that she is not good at cooking as her ex or they will say the victim is not good at sex as his exes, etc. They will turn cold and distant, they will lose interest in the victim , sexually and emotionally, they will create drama to walk away from their victims to spend time with their lovers, they will dessapear for days or weeks, they will ignore their victims, the victims needs and wants, they will take away their attention to the victims being very inconsiderate, they will be rude and agg...

Narcissistic fuel

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The fuel All psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths and not all sociopaths are narcissists. The fuel, gasoline, or narcissistic supply are positive or negative attention, our positive or negative emotional reactions, this is the fuel the narcissist needs to validate himself, he needs from constant validation, he cannot even validate himself. This individual doesnt have the capacity to validate himself, thats why he needs from external validation and approval. He hasnt a good self steem, he has a very low self steem, he is a black hole full of emptiness. He seems confident, strong, but this is the image he wants to project to people . The only way he has to maintain that perfect image he wants to show is with our emotional reactions, without this he cannot function, he is addicted to provokate emotional reactions on us, this is the way he can exist, this is the way he lives, to live this way is normal for him. I know this is beyond our underst...

Love bombing, Idealization, Golden period.

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Love bombing , Idealization , golden period . This is the first phase where the sociopath, psychopath and the narcissist will seduce their victims with attention, compliments, messages, good moments, good sex, phone calls, caring, love, companionship, gifts, etc. They will use all their loquacity and charm to convince their victims that they are the perfect woman, the perfect man , the right man or the right woman for them, they will talk about love , they will show their victims they are really in love with them, sometimes they will introduce the victims to their friends or family, they will show their victims how much they care for the relationship, they will ask their victims to move in with them, etc. If ur new boyfriend or girlfriend behaves this way, if he or she demands u different things for example to quit ur job, to move in with him or her. All the relationships need time , both parts need time to know each other, if she or he asks u to marry him or her , a...

Characteristics of a narcissist

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                          Traits of a narcissist 1-A big sense of superiority. 2-Lack of empathy. 3-Lack of remorse. 4-Pathological liars. 5-A big sense of grandiosity. 6-They love to control and manipulate. 7-Irresponsable people. 8-They have a parasitic life. 9-Lack of deep emotions such as love, compassion, joy, etc. 10-They love to exploit other people to get benefits. 11-They are addicted to power and control. 12-They never take the blame.

Characteristics of a sociopath

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             Traits of a sociopath 1- A big sense of grandiosity. 2- They dont establish emotional ties with no one. 3-Lack of remorse. 4- Lack of empathy. 5- They love to exploit other people to get benefits. 6- They have a parasitic life, they love to use other people's resources , such as money, a home, etc. 7- They tend to juvenile delincuency. 8- Superficial charm: They love to use a mask to fool people. 9- They love to bully other people. 10-They are unfaithful. 11- They love to control and manipulate. 12- They get bored easily.

Characteristics of a psychopath

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The psychopath 1- A big sense of grandiosity. 2- A big sense of superiority. 3- Lack of empathy. 4- Lack of emotions, ( such as love, compassion, happiness). 5- Pathological liars. 6- Irresponsable people. 7- Unfaithful people. 8- They love to control and manipulate. 9- They are addicted to control and power. 10- Early behaviour problems. 11- Promiscuous sexual behaviour. 12- Lack of remorse.

Sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists

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The sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists are antisocial , because they dont respect the moral norms , they think they are above them and they dont have the obligation to respect them. The sociopath and the psychopath belong to the group of antisocial personality disorders but in this case, the concept of antisocial refers to criminal acts, they can commit or not criminal acts such as illegal prostitution, robberies, murders, sell of drugs, illegal glambing, etc. The malignant narcissist have antisocial traits too. The concept of antisocial it doesnt mean that these people dont have social relationships, they seem normal people who stablish social relationships in our society , but they aint normal people. The psychopath The psychopath can inherit the psychopathy from his parents genes or one of them. Robert Hare, expert in psychopathy says that many parents give their children love, support but the children can become psychopaths anyway, although its pa...