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The ego from sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists

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The narcissist The narcissist has an inflated ego, this inflated ego is built through the narcissistic supply, which is all the positive or negative emotional reactions the narcissist gets from his victims. This ego makes him believe he is above other people, it makes him feel omnipotent, special and unique, he feels like a god. When the narcissist devalues his victims and he uses different abusive tactics such as the intermittent reinforcement or the silent treatment, all this feeds his ego and he gets narcissistic supply, he feels powerful and in control. The narcissist needs constantly narcissistic supply to reinforce his ego through the positive or negative reactions from his victims, this is the only way he can survive in this world. He needs to provokate constantly emotional reactions to his partner, family, friends, coworkers, children, strangers , etc , to maintain his false image, that image he has created (the neglected child) or the image his parents, mother or ...
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Support groups

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These groups of support on Whatsapp have these objectives: 1- Teach the victims how sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists operate. 2-Give information to the victims. 3-Give advice, help and support to the victims who didnt leave their abuser yet. 4-Give advice, help and support to those victims who left their abuser and went no contact. 5-The Coach will go online every single day to inform, help, advice, support all the members. 6-The victims will be trained to break the trauma bond, learn to detox themselves from their abuser, be trained to end with cognitive dissonance. Rules: 1-There must be respect between all the members. 2-The groups will be classified by disorder and they might be classified by friendship, family, partners, etc, if the members rather it this way. The cost is monthly , it is paid by Pay Pal . If u are interested u can email me at natalielifecoach417@gmail.com
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Attachment system

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The attachment is the closure the proximity an individual can have or developes for another individual. The attachment will create the emotional bond and the reciprocity between 2 people. Types of attachment Secure attachment: Theres an unconditionality of the mum to the child, the child's needs are found, he feels loved, accepted and valued. Theres a good emotional relationship between the child and his mum. When the child becomes an adult he can develope good interpersonal relationships, he is confident and independent, he can accept abandonment or failure in any relationship he has, as an adult he will be a reciprocal person. Anxious attachment: The child has opposed feelings, he feels anxiety, fear, insecurity and preoccupation, he feels like this when his mum separates from him for some moments, when the mother comes back, he cannot calm himself down easily and he feels anger. He cannot trust his mum because the separation causes him insecurity , fear and anxiety. ...
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The envy from sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists.

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Sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists are pathological envious. Sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists will choose a victim with good characteristics someone attractive, intelligent, someone with a good social status , with a good job , a professional , someone good and honest, generous, etc. These predators want victims who provide them a good image to their ego. During the Love Bombing phase they will tell many compliments to their victims such as : Wow u are so gorgeous, I never seen in my whole life someone so gorgeous like u or u are very intelligent u have a very good job, etc. The compliments will be there to seduce the victim, but at the same time they will feel attracted to their victims for the characteristics he or she has because this is fuel for the psychopath and the narcissist, to have a victim with good attributes it makes them feel good about themselves. These abusers will exhibit their victims as thropies to their family, friends, they will show their victi...
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The narcissist behind his mask

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The narcissist and his mask. The narcissist is not real, he is a farse and a fraud, he knows he is not genuine, he knows he isnt that strong, powerful, confident person he pretends to be. He knows he has created a character to survive in this life, he knows he is not like the rest of the people, he is unable to feel good feelings like all the people and that triggers his envy. The narcissist cant feel and love no one, he cant even love himself, he hates himself in every way. The narcissist needs from constant approval and attention although he seems to be the confident and strong man, behind his mask theres only a broken person without positive feelings, without self steem, without self validation, without self love, he cant validate himself in any way, thats why he uses different victims to validate himself . He knows he depends on other people for validation and that is his big secret, the narcissistic supply is for him the food he needs every single day for his false con...
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Feelings and emotions from sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists.

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Feelings and emotions, sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists can feel and cannot feel. The narcissist: Can feel: Hatred, envy, shameness ( in certain situations), feeling of revenge, depression, anxiety ( in certain situations ), fear (in certain situations), sexual impulse, resentment, rage, frustration, contempt. Cant feel: Joy, sadness, happiness, remorse, empathy, regret, gratification, love, accountability, compassion, consideration, attachment, guilt. The psychopath: Can feel: Hatred, envy, rage, feeling of revenge, sexual impulse, contempt, resentment, frustration. Cant feel: Love, compassion, consideration, depression, fear, anxiety, sadness, joy, shameness, happiness, remorse, empathy, regret, gratification, attachment, affection, guilt, accountability. The sociopath: Can feel: Depression, envy , sexual impulse, resentment,frustration, hatred, contempt, rage, feeling of revenge. Cant feel: Remorse, love, compassion, consideration, empath...
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Behaviours from sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists

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Signs that u are or u were with a narcissist , sociopath or psychopath. 1- They lie constantly, they say absurd and unnecessary lies. 2-They crave for constant attention and adulation. (Only the narcissist). 3-They never assume their accountability, the blame or their mistakes. 4-They never apologize and they never show regrets for anything. 5-They use the victimhood, they are always the victims from their exes, family, friends, coworkers, bosses, partners, etc. 6-They are unfaithful repeatedly. 7-They always justify themselves, if they cheat on u , it is because u didnt give them enough time or attention, if they yelled at u , it was because u started the fight, etc. 8-They like pornography and they have certain paraphilias. 9-They dont want to have intimicy with u, they tell u that u are fat or too thin, that u are old and u dont attract them physically. 10-They have unreachable projects, although they dont have the capacity and the money to achieve them. 11-They are irresponsa...
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Devaluation

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Sociopathic, psychopathic and narcissistic devaluation This is the second phase the victim lives with a sociopath, psychopath or narcissist . Here they will start to change and show their true colours, they will devalue the victim with critics, sarcasm, they will take away their attention , they will make fun of the victim for example they will criticize the victim's clothes, how the victim speaks, the things the victim likes, they will compare the victim with their exes telling her that she is not good at cooking as her ex or they will say the victim is not good at sex as his exes, etc. They will turn cold and distant, they will lose interest in the victim , sexually and emotionally, they will create drama to walk away from their victims to spend time with their lovers, they will dessapear for days or weeks, they will ignore their victims, the victims needs and wants, they will take away their attention to the victims being very inconsiderate, they will be rude and agg...
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Narcissistic fuel

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The fuel All psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths and not all sociopaths are narcissists. The fuel, gasoline, or narcissistic supply are positive or negative attention, our positive or negative emotional reactions, this is the fuel the narcissist needs to validate himself, he needs from constant validation, he cannot even validate himself. This individual doesnt have the capacity to validate himself, thats why he needs from external validation and approval. He hasnt a good self steem, he has a very low self steem, he is a black hole full of emptiness. He seems confident, strong, but this is the image he wants to project to people . The only way he has to maintain that perfect image he wants to show is with our emotional reactions, without this he cannot function, he is addicted to provokate emotional reactions on us, this is the way he can exist, this is the way he lives, to live this way is normal for him. I know this is beyond our underst...
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Love bombing, Idealization, Golden period.

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Love bombing , Idealization , golden period . This is the first phase where the sociopath, psychopath and the narcissist will seduce their victims with attention, compliments, messages, good moments, good sex, phone calls, caring, love, companionship, gifts, etc. They will use all their loquacity and charm to convince their victims that they are the perfect woman, the perfect man , the right man or the right woman for them, they will talk about love , they will show their victims they are really in love with them, sometimes they will introduce the victims to their friends or family, they will show their victims how much they care for the relationship, they will ask their victims to move in with them, etc. If ur new boyfriend or girlfriend behaves this way, if he or she demands u different things for example to quit ur job, to move in with him or her. All the relationships need time , both parts need time to know each other, if she or he asks u to marry him or her , a...
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